Why am I having sex with his sister?

Im having sex with my boyfriend sister what should I do if my boyfriend finds out hes going to kill me I been sleeping with her for 3 months now I dont love her it was only sex how do tell my boyfriend it was only sex how do I stop him from hurting me and leaving me im so scarred to tell him what is the best way to tell him should I do it when lots of people are around so he wont beat the hell out of me or use a weapon on me I need help the only reason I want to come to clean is because his sister is in love with me and she told me she wants me to leave her brother for her and she said if I dont shes going to tell him everything I got tell him first I dont love her help me help anybody advice pls!

Answer #1

there is a difference, between the woman who has been married for some odd years and makes a mistake one night, and a woman who knowingly cheats on someone she supposedly cares about for three months. you obviously did not see it as wrong or a mistake because you kept doing it. There is pretty much no way in hell that he wont leave you, and hes right to leave you for many reasons A. he cant look at his sister the same way anymore B. you can bet its gonna get back to his mother, and she gets to hear about it, then he gets to endure the looks from her C. he trusted you, and you demonstrated that you dont care about him. This was not a one time mistake, this was more than that. D. he gets to now realize that his own sister didnt care about him

I comfort friends who have made a mistake and are sorry, and wont ever do it again, and have realized that they love theyr boyfriends more than anything, but someone who constantly cheats and then actually whines and actually expects to be able to fix it, needs to spend some time being single and thinking about their insecurities that made them need the extra attention so bad.

Answer #2

Well it’s clear that your a cheater for one. To be honest you really can’t stop him from hurting you. The wrong choices in life can lead to bad things. What you can do is just come clean and tell him the truth but don’t make up any excuses as to why you did it because it’s going to make it worse. If it works out between yall after that then cool but you need to make up in your mind that you are finish wit her, if you are not ready for that then let him know that as well. you don’t wanna prolong anything. And it really does not matter if you tell him around people or by urself because if you not by urself he’s probably going to wait until you are and then again if you are around people he might still snap depending on how he takes it. What I see is you were looking for fast booty and she fell in love. I really don’t believe your that sorry either I believe it got to you saying you wanna come clean and that your sorry because she threatened to tell on u. So just go from your heart, if you wanna keep messing around you need to be honest with him.

Answer #3

Well a*shole what did you expect? Sex without love is an empty experience and you used another human being for your own selfish pleasures. I hope he does beat the hell out of you, maybe you’ll learn something.

THINK BEFORE YOU ACT

Answer #4

I understand.. you got caught up with the sister and now its going to effect you in a way you didn’t think of. Well, its time. I would go to him before she does. Tell him you where just exparementing and your sorry. He might suprise you. Just be honost, what comes, comes. Its not easy, but that close to home is always a bad idea. Be careful, be happy, just no with the sister..lol. Jeff TBP

Answer #5

Well the first thing that actually caught my attention was that your affraid that he’ll hurt you.. Why? If he’s violently hit you before, then don’t be with him. Well, if he has hit you. And don’t tell him in public! I would be even more pissed if someone did that. I would do it via text. Just start out with saying you made a mistake. Let him know you regret and you won’t do it again. Wish you luck.

Answer #6

well I suppose your old enough to move out with him right? well I don’t know if you guys are even living together but… well you should try to show him that your commited to him and only him by moving out together.. gosh this is really hard hmmm but if you really loved him why would you do that I really dont understand cheating really. well I don’t know figure out what you want sex or your boyfriends love and stick with one and best is to tell the truth. im sorry I cant really help much

Answer #7

y do you like his sis atlest tell him then he wount be as annoyed but he still will he will prob break up wi u

Answer #8

I like how one of your old questions is asking what to do if your boyfrind thinks you’re a slut… Looks like he was right.

Answer #9

im sorry mate but you should have thought about that before potentially ruining the family bond between them

I hope you lose them both…

im sorry but thats what I think

Answer #10

You shouldn’t feel bad because of what the FunAdvice people say about this. You should only feel bad if you truly feel guilty. It depends on what you value. Maybe you are a cheater, a sex addict, something. You can either accept yourself for who you are, who you have become, or you can change. If you choose to accept then I guess you’d continue cheating on your boyfriend and not tell him. If you choose to change then you can start with telling him the truth.

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