Why is he ignoring me if he likes me?

there is this one guy that I really like. not too long after I met him we had sex. after that we kept in touch for about 2 weeks.but most of the time all he talked about was having more sex with me. now he’s ignoring me. I thought he liked me? he told me he really liked me and that eventually he wanted to move in together. did he just tell me that so he could get some? I really dont understand…

Answer #1

Dont you know that guys will say whatever a girl wants to hear? You fell for everything he told you. NEVER EVER have sex with a guy just because you “like” him. Especially shortly after just meeting! Its called being in a long, commited relationship) The reason people wait to sleep with someone is to avoid doing something they might later regret. And though I think it’s safe to say that these people are in the minority, some men ‑- and women too ‑- are just out to have sex. These are the people who will move on quickly once their appetites are sated. And if you force such people to wait awhile to have sex, they’re apt to get bored and move on (which also means the person looking for a relationship is less likely to get burned).

Bad Reasons for sex too soon: · A need for sex. · You want the person to love you. · Social pressure to perform. · Nothing more to talk about. · Boredom. · A curiosity to find out if there’s any chemistry. · You want to make someone else jealous. · To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner. · You’re challenging a dare. · An attempt to solidify the relationship.

Answer #2

It was just a booty call!!!

Answer #3

Unfortunately it sounds like he was just telling you what you wanted to hear so he could sleep with you, and once it became clear it wasn’t going to happen again anytime soon he pulled the pin. A really unfortunate situation, but thats what it is - you just need to try and put him behind you and move on.

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