Who knows if your sore after sex?

My boyfriend has a really big d*, and it’s going to be my first time having sex, will my vagina be sore after?

Answer #1

Yes. You will. Just make sure, however, you’re smart about it. I know it’s hard to talk youngsters out of sex anymore, so the only thing you can do is preach safe sex. Honestly, though, the only safe sex in middle and high school is no sex.

Seeing as you’re only 14, you make get a lot of flack. Best choice is to not do it, less chance of anything bad happening. It’s, also, a good tool to figure out if your boyfriend really wants you for you and not just your body. Reason I say that is because the majority of boys in middle and high school are only after Virginity Trophies. They could care less about the girl, but do to the raging hormones, all they care about is sex.

Depending on how long you’ve been together, you can always say “no.” If he keeps pressuring you after you’ve said “no,” then you can be assured he’s only after what’s between your legs and not anything else. My philosophy is: just stay away from relationships throughout your school years. Less stress (that most teens are incapable of handling) and less distraction from actual school work.

Ok, now that the sermon is over, I’ll go back to the original question. Yes, you’ll probably be sore. Especially if you decide you want to go multiple times. Also, use a condom. The “I-don’t-have-a-condom-I-can-just-pull-out” method is not a valid birth control method. Pre-ejaculate (or precum as it’s better known as) carries sperm, also. While he may not ejaculate inside you, you can still get pregnant just as easily from the precum. If you still want to become sexually active, though, let your parents know…seriously… Get on birth control. Not only will this decrease any chance you have of getting preggers, but it will also regulate your periods. Birth control, however, does not mean you can have sex without a condom because there’s no such thing as 100% effective. Only in combination can you be safe (I.e. birth control + condom).

Any other questions, give me a buzz. I’m always on. :)

Answer #2

I agree with amanwithalotofanswers on the very last paragraph for the most part. He’s right about the precum and don’t believe any of those legends about not being able to get prego if the girl is on top or in a hot tub or whatever. I can guarentee you WILL be sore, trust me, but make sure you take it slow and have a lot of foreplay, meaning a lot of making out and fingering and stuff, the wetter you are down there the less it’ll hurt, especially if hes huge. The best position since you’re a virgin is cowgirl so you on top, that way you can control the speed that you put his dick in you. Also, just a heads up, make sure you use the condom correctly, if it was in his back pocket don’t use it, and make sure you squeeze the tip of the condom and then roll it down his penis, most people don’t know that. And if you happen to have $20-$50 lieing around the day after pill (which isn’t an abortion pill, its an incredibaly high dose of birth control) is available at various cvs and walmarts at the perscription area for ages 17+, but you can get a friend to buy it for you, the website for plan b actually suggests it if you aren’t old enough.

Answer #3

Yes it will. Also your stomach might hurt like by where it hurts when you get cramps. Also make sure you are really wet before or have him finger you first otherwise if you’re dry it will hurt a lot more.

Answer #4

yes, if his big and your a virgin it will most definatly be sore, and will hurt during, but only for the first 5 mintutes or so, my advise is make sure your reall wet and hirny before hand, mayeb get some lube, you might also bleed a little afterwoods or during but it make sure your lubbed up good this shouldnt happen, it will hurt quite a lot im afrade especialy if hes big, but if you get though it and keep at it you will soon find that its reaaally good:P oh and dont forget to use somekind of contraception, most common candoms

Answer #5

umm duh. of course its gonna hurt

Answer #6

yes it will. big dicks hurt like crazy

Answer #7

probably…

Answer #8

my first time was with a guy with a big * and it didnt hurt at all. the reason being that he took it way slow and was asking me all the way to warn him if he hurt me. the first thing he did was rub my cli t and lick me and finger me first to get me wet but after that he slowly went in a little and then came out and went in a little more each time so it never hurt me one bit. it was really great. you guys gotta talk about it.

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