Who can answer my questions (for guys)?

Oky well cahnges for each guy but for me, nothing like bare skins on bare skin and I love it when she gives me massages and she normally just end up laying on top of me, not doing anything and with her arm round me which makes me feel like she wants me and also on the back, if your kissing or doing more or less than that her hand on my back under my shirt is great. In public place though her arm round me or and this I think is just me is when she just does something with out any sudgestion or hints from me (I.e. use your initiative) good example is we were eating in a service station with bunch of friends not enough seats just casually comes and sits on my lap and for me when she does something like that comepletely off her own back is not only a indirect turn on but a big confirm that she likes me. in private WELL same applys I’ve found that I love talking to her on the phone in long chats because you get to know each other, your not there togeather theres no disractions of the tv in front of you if your in private you can talk and say what ever you want and you cant get off the subject by getting off etc! and that means you understand them what they maybe up for and not, so when it comes to USING YOUR initiative its already got a head start, I know she loves it when I use mine and she knows I love it when she uses hers dont necessarily go wild but if that is what floats your boat go for it. CHIRSTMAS! we decided to do stockings for each other because we want something fun, this is great set a budget of £10 means tyou have to be creative and kinky!

play around by some jokey things I.e. hand cuffs (ebay £2) they may be a joke but if he’s keen on the idea he’ll use them, if not its a joke and nothing meant by it!

sorry theres not straight answer but talk to him, use your hands its not all about down there!

NOWW if you feel so kind enlighten me a little bit as to what gets you going… :)