Which guy should I go out with?

Right now I am really confused what to do…I am liking two guys and I am confused what to do about it. The first guy I like I have known for 3 years now and we have dated for a year and then we broke up for a hour and now we are talking again…the main reason we broke up is because he was immature and not a good christian…so I went away to college and decided to be a better christian and found a great guy who loved God. So I put my ex out of the picture and now he is back in the picture and I am not sure what to do. The second guy I met in college and he is everything I want in a guy a great christian and I really want to get to know him better. But the only thing is that I don’t know if he likes me and he doesn’t really show me if he does, and I really would like a chance with this guy. So I am confused do I give my ex another chance to show he is changing and willing to go to church more, and start over. Or should I go for this new guy that I don’t know if he likes me at all and I could waste my time waiting for a long time. I am really in the point of my life I would love to find someone to settle down with and just start thinking of a long term relationship…so what do I do go for the new guy I don’t know how he feels or go for the ex that I have known for a long time but we did break up and there are some questions still left?

Answer #1

Whenever I’ve gotten back together with a guy I broke up with, we always ended up breaking up again. And guess what? For the same exact reasons we broke up the first time!

The odds of the old boy changing for real are pretty slim. People will do/say/become almost anything for somene they love if the person they love is giving them the chance to do so.

Some good advice I got once: when people show you something about themselves, just believe it. Don’t try to talk yourself out of it. My vote–go on with the new guy who has shown you what you want to see, rather than to hang on to the old guy who has shown that he is what you don’t want.

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