When should I ask her out?

I’m a sophomore in college and before started my second year I started to talk to this girl on Facebook who is a incoming freshmen. Were both from the same area and both Technical theater majors so me had something in common right from the start.

We have been hanging out a lot in the last few weeks and I know that she likes me at least as a friend. We have talked about everything you could imagine, but one of the things that she told me just in casual conversation is that she docent want a relationship right now because she had a really bad experience this summer when she and this other guy were really drunk. I don’t thing that she said that because she thought that i was interested in her, but I’m not 100% sure about that.

I haven’t seen her in about a week because are schedule are completely different, but it has given me a chance to think and every day that passes i find myself falling even more and more in love with her. Shes like no one i have ever met in my life and I just want to be with her. But no mater what I do i don’t want to screw up are friendship because i have done that with to many girls in my life.

Should i tell her how i feel about her, should i ask her out, should i wait until something happens? I’m pretty good friends with best friend, should i ask her for help? I think that she would be wiling to help me if i asked her in the right way, I just don’t know how that way is.

I love her like no one i have ever fell for before in my life. Please help, I cant think about anything else and i want to be with her more then anything else in the world.

Answer #1

You sound like you fall very fast and easily for girls…being you have screwed up plenty of friendships with many girls as you put it!

You do not love this girl. Love takes 2 people. This is only 1-sided. Shes already told you she doesnt want a relationship right now. She might be getting vibes from you, and thats why she wanted to let you know. If someone was really interested in another person, they would at least want to give them a try. Not necessarily going out, but just spending more and more time together, getting to know one another.

Dont keep pursuing her, and being a bother. Just let things happen. Leave it in fates hands!

Answer #2

Dear codered11343, Take a step back. She is just getting over a bad experience…and I hope she is getting counselling for this or you probably will never have a chance. She needs to get herself together before she can ever be in a lasting relationship. There are a few red flags here and she’s waving them pretty hard at you. Just be her friend, enjoy her company and be there for her if she needs to talk. Saying you love her this early in the relationship says that you probably have some issues to address in yourself as well…enjoy her as a friend and if you can’t then you need to stay away from her totally. Sue…good luck

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