How do you know if it is the right time to have sex ?
Well, to be honest... There is no right time to tell if your ready. It might feel like it, but your young and im sure your hormones are going crazy. Most of my friends lost their virginity at age 14-16. I just lost mine this year at age 18. Im happy I waited and did it with someone I loved and known for a very very long time. If your really wanting to have sex, please be SAFE. Be on the pill, use a condom EVERYTIME!!! Or talk to your Doctor about other ways to be safe. The guy you are wanting to have sex with, make sure you compleatly TRUST him. You NEVER EVER want to have a guy that bangs and tells. (has sex with you then tells the world) Do your research. Go to a parenting website. Look at all the factors of accedents. If your Prolife, then def. wait. If your Prochoice, then You better be one strong girl to have the after effects of it. Know all the consequences if something were to go wrong. (baby, STDs, EVERYTHING)
I dont know what else to say, but dont just think about it for a day, think about it for awhile and talk to the one your wanting to do this with. Sometimes it helps.
Peace and Goodluck.
PS: BE SAFE!
Exactly, either wait till your married, or you are in a monogamous relationship with someone you have dated for a LONG TIME, and can trust, and feel that if the responsibility is put on you...raise a child.. think about the consequences, and think about if it is worth it, I know a lot of people who commonly use the phrase, "I should have waited", Don't be one of them... be smart about it, and safe about it.. anyways, good luck. :]
When it just happens. when you are forcing it, it's not the right time and you will regret it... which isn't somehting you want to do.
When you are in a long term relationship and both are 100% ready to have sex.