Im 13 and got my period 4 months ago and had sex with my 19 year old boyfriend and now im pregnany when my boyfriend hi me...what should I doo..???
First of all, your boyfriend is in trouble. Even if your parents dont file charges, if the officials find out, the stae will press charges.
Secondly, you are thirteen, you have a whole lot of life ahead of you. I am all for a mother continuing on with an unwanted or unexpected pregnancy. Both my sisters became pregnant at 14. They kept all except one which was given in adoption. That was my twins first. My older sister kept all of hers and she basically carries around baby bottles and does laundry all day. Because my twin CHOSE diferently, she now has a doctorate in environmental ecology. She is happily married with two children and lives in a great house in suburban Minneapolis.
There are plenty of great parents out there who are able and ready to love and care for your child. And abortion, although seems gruesome, is as natural as any surgery, and has been used to preserve quality of life on planet earth for thousnds of years.
Ultimately, it is UP TO YOU!
You need to tell your parents now! So you can start getting prenatal care you are very high risk being so young, and remember hunny whatever you decide to do with this baby keep it or adoption it is still you who is responsible for keeping it alive and healthy while it is inside you. And I agree with everyone tell your boyfriend good bye because he's going to jail. . .this is something you two should of thought about before you fooled around. I have two kids of my own and I am 22 and one thing you need to learn fast is it is not about you anymore, it's not about your boyfriend and the trouble he is in it's about your baby.
Tell your parents, that's all you can do... There are other options, and someone else is free to tell you about that, but I'm not interested in talking you into something you'll probably regret in about 7 to 15 years when you're ready to love a child of your own.
Your "boyfriend" will go to jail... so don't be surprised when that happens. It's highly illegal for him to be having sex with you.
Tell your parents, you may regret it now but in the future you'll be glad you did. your parents may press charges on your boyfriend, since he's above the age of 18 I wouldn't suggest abortion because I'm highly against it, have the child and put it up for adoption unless your parents are willing to help you take care of him/her.
Thats all I have to say, good luck
