When should I make the move?

me and my gf hav ben together for almost 3 months now we have made out.my cousins tell me i should grab her butt now thats its almost three months.my firned does it to his girl and he say i should do the same.i want to but idk if its the right time n wat if it makes her feel weird or something

Answer #1

lol. ok grabbing her behind out of nowhere isnt that romantic. lol you guys havent even hookedup yet. why dont you try hookingup [makingout] with her then while your hooking up with her gently keep your hand on her butt. lol. although grabbing her butt on a first hookup isnt all that sexy. lol. yea and try talking to her, see if shes ready for more steps in the relationship. i bet your cousin gets no girls/guys lol.

Answer #2

People and relationships move at different paces. Don’t feel like you have to do something just because other people are. Try talking to your girlfriend about it. Ask her what she wants to do and what she would feel comfortable with. Don’t worry about anyone else and what they are doing.

Answer #3

Do you think that 3months of a relationship means you should grab her butt? I doubt that is great advice from someone… just make sure you ask her if that is ok…if she is comfortable… if not…maybe something a little more subtle…

Answer #4

Okay I’m so glad I am a female! Dont take your cousin advise! Talk to her and see how confortable she is with you and your relationship It might seem a bit awkard but if you cant have that kinda conversation then its not worth hanging on to the relationship Three months would be fine for me but everyone is different … Good luck =]

Answer #5

Relationships arent about doing things within a certain time frame! And they arent about disrespecting your partner. Why are you listening to your cousins for anyway? You boys all sound very immature! Just because she is your gf, doesnt mean you have the right to do whatever you want to her, without her consent! She is a person just like you are. Treat her with kindness, and above all, respect!

Answer #6

Well do yooh think dat its da right time? Jus cause yur frend does dat to his gurl doesnt mean yooh got to do da same

Answer #7

it really depends on the girl. some girls just dont like people grabbing their butt.

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