What's the use of a spouse?

There is a price to pay for everything in life, and one of those compromises we all make (well, most of us) is to choose a companion then embark upon a lifetime of sharing each others company, and a family, including lots give and take. That’s the theory, and for many, it actually works.

You’d be selling yourself short to make decisions now about spending your life alone with two or three motherless children. The decision to get married and raise a family is usually made when you’ve finally met someone that you can’t imagine being without. Of course that’s hard to envision if you’ve never felt strongly about anyone.

Talk to some single men in their 50s and 60s and ask them what type of life they’ve had. They may have regrets, they may not.

You seem quite skeptical about how marriages turn out, but hey, that may be a good thing, and it may make you more discriminating when you choose a partner and more aware of possible problems. There are many happy families and happy couples who don’t fit the scenario you’ve painted – but every relationship involve some nurturing and some compromise.

Keep this question of yours and look at it again in 10 years. It may make you smile :)

Your parents must have really shown dysfunction for you to feel like that. The purpose of getting married is to have a partner in life that you TRUST to bounce ideas off of and share life experiences with. Having a child with that person is supposed to draw the two of you closer. I think you need an attitude adjustment. Not all women are these evil psycho nagging cheating b*tches you generalize them to be. I hope some day, we are more than just a hole for you to bang when youre horny. Get some therapy kid.

The Good - Being in love The Bad - Arguments, but did you not have arguments with your parents?

Sounds like you have a problem with the opposite sex and always will have, unless you change your attitude about it.
Marriage is a great institution. A woman or man can be your best friend till death-do-us part.
There is one thing about marriage that 2 people must do and that is constantly create it. It looks like you stopped when it got boring. Boredom is a sign of not creating the game again. In marriage you have to do that constantly. It’s either you don’t know how to create, that could be anything, or sex is all there is to a marriage. It’s not. There are other factors involved. It looks like you need to do something about it before you really can’t get out of that dilemma. The one dilemma is you are building up STRESS beyond what you can imagine. Let me ask you a question, “what is it you want for yourself that you can’t seem to get from women.” Answer that and maybe you will find the right person. Their complaining is do to you not doing something. You probably got it from every woman you had a relationship with, RIGHT! You know the old saying, “we get what we ask for.” It seems you got it with her, “HELL”. You didn’t figure it out before hand.

Life is BEAUTIFUL, and marriage is the same, start creating it.