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I have been finding people from my primary online with a reason to show them who use to be nasty to show I am not fat and ugly anymore, that I dont hold grudges and that I need to explain why I seemed auquid back then that im autistic not odd.Now I have found Evie who was the one who made me feel the worse.I want to send her a friend request and send her a NICE message with it but now I have found her I dont know what to say. What can I say to her without sounding nasty but still cool with everything Please help if you have a opinion

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Answer #1

Hmmm, tricky one to answer. If I were you, I would write something in a joking fashion. For example:

‘Hey Evie! Long time no speak… I’m sure you most likely don’t remeber me but we used to go to primary school together.’

Then you could say just directly why your talking to her, or why you looked her up on a social site. Such as:

‘The reason I’ve looked you up on a social site is basically to surpass people’s thoughts of me. Im no longer fat and ugly…

[ I’m sure you were not fat and ugly! ]

…and I want to let you know that I don’t hald grudges from the past. So if yuo want to start over, then that would be cool.

Think It over.

AbbeyRose’

So hopefully this has helped. Don’t be to formal but don’t be to informal. Show her how much you have changed and give her a reason to change her thoughts about you!

Give her a run for her money ;)

Daisy-May -x-

Answer #2

little kids are mean to each other. and really, everyone thought they were ugly. if she even remembers, she probably feels horrible so I would just pretend it never happened. you’ve both grown up and should be able to get past it and maybe become friends.

Answer #3

just act as if she was never mean to you. if she knows that you remember her being mean to you, then subconsciously she will still feel in control. if she thinks that you dont even remember much about her, then you are both more likely to fall on even grounds. now that you are both older, hopefully she has grown up a bit.

im guessing that you dont want to become close friends with her or anything, so if you keep the conversation neutral then you should be fine.

I dont think its a good idea to confront her about the mean stuff she did because that will just stir it up again.

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