What should I do! my girlfriend never wants to stop talking?

my girlfriend wants to talk to me everyday, since the end of school to 11:00 at night, I want more free time. I have other things to focus on, I am on the computer 24/7 because off her, I dont want to break up with her, I really love her. after school this is my normal day, nap, homework, sleep for the next day of school. But with her I cant get anything done, because if I say, “ I gotta do my homework, or im tired ill talk to you later, she WILL have a spas attack and yell at me or get mad at me all day, and I have to say sorry. again I really love her, I do not want to break up with her, but WHAT SHOULD I DO!? please help me. ):

Answer #1

as a mature girl with experience in relationships id say your right thats fair enough, you do need sleep and cannot fail school becos I want to talk to you all the time. But your girlfriend may not be that mature to see things that way, the only way to find out is to explain it to her gently, make her feel like this has nothing to do with you wanting to break up or anything of the sort, that you simply need some alone time, see how she takes it.

Answer #2

okay, for all the girls who answered this question, how would you take it or feel if I said I need more time for other things, I cant be talking to you 24/7? I love you but I have other things to do and im a guy, we need our sleep. I cant fail my grades or do bad in wrestling( the sport I play) because I’m always concentrating on you. be honest please.

Answer #3

You tell her to grow up mate…she is young and inlove and cant see straight. But you need to explain to her that just becos you dont want to fail your school work and need more sleep doesnt mean you dont love her, it just means you need other things. what happens after school? is she going to expect you not to work long hours becos she expects you to talk to her non stop, she needs to balance things out and realise love isnt absolutely everything all the time, you need time for yourself also, shes gona burn you out and your going to end up getting so sick of it you’ll leave, nip it in the bud now.

Answer #4

I’ve been through this in my relationship..I was the one who did the nonstop talking so I know why she’s doing it.

She’s doing it because you are pretty much her everything, and she loves you to death.

But you do need to tell her that you need your time.

But do it as carefully and as sensitive as you can be.

And if she gets mad at you, do the same when she is always talking to you when you are busy.

Explain to her how you feel! Tell her you have other stuff to worry about, tell her she is important to you but you have other things to take care of too.

Answer #5

she just wants to be wit you because you got her sprung so she doesnt noe you need space. just telll her you have important things to do but do it gently.if she gets mad then tell her to chill out and you still love her

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