My boyfriend asked me if I was ready I said yes, but I'm too worried if there's something wrong wth my thingy ma-bobz ;) And I feel ready though I don't even like the thought of being fingered.
IMO if you're scared of being honest and open with him, and if you're worried that he'll label you frigid just because you want to wait a little longer, then I don't think you should be sharing something so intimate. Being open and honest, talking about awkward things, is what a mature relationship is like. I think you should wait until you can trust him at least. I feel a bit sorry for you actually because there's clearly a lot of pressure from this thoroughly screwed up society to have sex when you're just children.
To include, a nice mature guy will actually care about your feelings, wont want to pressure you, wont mind waiting, guys like that do exist, just so you know.
so you'll do anything he wants then? It's up to you anyway. The only thing I would say is that if you want him to return the feelings having sex with him wont necessarily achieve that. I really think a guy that cares about you should be concerned about how you are feeling. I was at 14
its fine as long as there isnt any pressure to do so... If so he isnt the guy for you right now.. If you arnt even into exploring yourself sexually I dont think you are ready to explore him yet.. wait..
I know but I can't just say I dont think you'll like my body or something like that :/ Gd his is gorgeous xD
You shouldn't do anything if you aren't sure about it. You should talk to your boyfriend about it
Yeah, to be honest he's abit pressurising... :S but I really love him D;
I'm still 14 :L and I know but what if he thinks Im fridgid? x
How old are you? And if you dont want to be fig then dont...
sorry to young.
