What should I do Im ready for sex but when its time I back out?

My boyfriend asked me if I was ready I said yes, but I’m too worried if there’s something wrong wth my thingy ma-bobz ;) And I feel ready though I don’t even like the thought of being fingered.

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Answer #1

so you’ll do anything he wants then? It’s up to you anyway. The only thing I would say is that if you want him to return the feelings having sex with him wont necessarily achieve that. I really think a guy that cares about you should be concerned about how you are feeling. I was at 14

Answer #2

IMO if you’re scared of being honest and open with him, and if you’re worried that he’ll label you frigid just because you want to wait a little longer, then I don’t think you should be sharing something so intimate. Being open and honest, talking about awkward things, is what a mature relationship is like. I think you should wait until you can trust him at least. I feel a bit sorry for you actually because there’s clearly a lot of pressure from this thoroughly screwed up society to have sex when you’re just children.

To include, a nice mature guy will actually care about your feelings, wont want to pressure you, wont mind waiting, guys like that do exist, just so you know.

Answer #3

Yeah, to be honest he’s abit pressurising… :S but I really love him D;

Answer #4

You shouldn’t do anything if you aren’t sure about it. You should talk to your boyfriend about it

Answer #5

I know but I can’t just say I dont think you’ll like my body or something like that :/ Gd his is gorgeous xD

Answer #6

sorry to young.

Answer #7

I’m still 14 :L and I know but what if he thinks Im fridgid? x

Answer #8

How old are you? And if you dont want to be fig then dont…

Answer #9

its fine as long as there isnt any pressure to do so… If so he isnt the guy for you right now.. If you arnt even into exploring yourself sexually I dont think you are ready to explore him yet.. wait..

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