What should I do about this guy I really want?

So I’m having some issues… hah… Valentine’s day of course. =\ So there’s this guy I really like, yea? I’ve liked him ever since I started the current school I’m going too, which has been 4 1/2 monthes. For the first few, he never gave me a chance. I was rejected by him several times, so I completely gave up. My thought was, maybe it’s just not meant to be. A month after I gave up, he came back to me, wanting a date. All this stuff… he told me that he had really just recently ‘noticed’ me. Well, we went out for a month… and he dumped me. =\ He’s said some stuff since then, and I’m not sure if he’s still interested or not. I think he might like another one of my friends, but we seem to have lots of chemistry. His bestfriend told me he talks about me all the time. :P haha Truth is, I’ve never gotten over him… Everything I do makes me think about him, it’s like I can’t even function properly. I really want him back… I miss him so bad… =\ I like him so sooo much. =( I’ve tried to date a few, and pursue a few, but none of them work, and I always get hurt… I always end up going to back to that one guy. I just really want to get back with him… what should I do? Advice please? hah Any advice you have to offer I would really love. Thank you. :)

Answer #1

Well in all honesty. I’ve never heard of a relation ship working between people at your school. Maybe you should try finding someone who doesn’t go to your school. As stupid as it sounds.

Answer #2

He doesn’t really sound very mature, and there’s no point going into a relationship if he is just going to mess you about. You don’t want to be going in and out and in and out of a relationship with him either, because it just isn’t stable. You want to be with someone who you know likes you, and wants to stick around, and NOT look at other girls. You want to be able to trust him.

If I were you, I would probably wait, just look around and see if you like anyone else, give it time, because its sounds as though he needs a bit of growing up to do :) Maybe date a few other people etc. and just see how it goes, don’t try to force anything or appear desperate :) Good luck!

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