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what is the deal with guys?

k so I had given up on guys & then one really good duy (at least I thought) started talking to me we text ya know partied & I spent the night w/him he said he really liked me and we have only kissed…he didnt wanna have sex because he thought it would ruin what he wanted to start w/me.. it was great then out of the blue he told me he didnt know what he wanted and hes been real distnace I’ve prob only talked to him twice this week I called him on it and he said he had a bunch of things 2figure out and didnt know if he wanted a realtionship..I don’t know am real bummed I need sumone elses view on my problem…

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Answer #1

Um no when he says he doesn’t want a relationship then that is that no relationship is wanted end of story. If he is distancing himself from you he is more than likley hoping that you will end things first so he doesn’t have to do it first because men are afraid to make a female cry. Either that or he is wanting to get with someone else.

Answer #2

ok, I been there. I don’t understand, what I did (& it’s hard) is give him time. let him know you’ll still be there for him. and everything…but give him time to figure out what he needs to get right in his life.

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