What is he trying to sayy???

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago.. There was nothing going wrong during the week but I guess he thought something was going wrong.. I don’t know Anyways, when he was breaking up with me through txt(lame) he told said, You know I love you, right? I said I guess Then he said, but I dont want a girlfriend right now. Things are too complicated with my parents and all. I told him not to say that he loves me or he will regret it Then he said, I do tho.

Wtf is going on? He was dumping me but telling me that he loves me. Helppp

Answer #1

He probably has some stress things going on that he’s not telling you about. I’d suggest let time run it’s course, and hang out with friends and have fun. If things are meant to be you will start dating again later on, but don’t blame yourself.

Answer #2

do you think I should ask him? or will I look desperate?

Answer #3

Hmmm I see many different ways that this could be like… as superstar said, he could have some issues that he wants to keep his attention on at the moment, but he fears that if he does this, he might neglect spending time with you, and he doesn’t want you to feel like he doesn’t care, which is why he tells that he loves you but have to break up.

It could also be that he didn’t feel like the relationship were going out well enough. Perhaps he had expected to feel more for you than he does. But since nothing exactly had been going wrong, he didn’t wanted to hurt you by saying “I don’t love you anymore”… when I was younger I would have said it like that, cause I’d not want to upset my girlfriend. It’s really an innocent message, but a stupid way to end a relationship n’ that can only be learned the hard way if noone tells.

You may say nothing had been going wrong. But when he writes “you know I love you, right?” and you reply “I guess”… I read it as if you’re having some problems in the relationship… if my girlfriend would answer like that I would get the feeling she was annoyed with me.

There could be other reasons to why he broke up with you and told you that he still loves you… but nomatter what I or anyone else will be able to think up, you won’t know what is going on before you ask him directly yourself.

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