What if no condom?

Yes, you can and probably thousands of people have in that short of amount of time. Don’t they teach this extremely important information in your school?

Firstly, if you aren’t married or aren’t living together in a committed relationship where you have made rules of what you’re going to do if you get pregnant, you should NOT be having sex at all. Yes, that is unrealistic and corny but taking care of a baby 24/7/365 is a reality you’ll be doing if you get pregnant and carry that baby for 9 months unless you get an abortion or give that same child away for adoption. Then good luck dealing with the guilt of killing your own baby or always wondering where you baby went to or is.

Look at the tittle (the small dot over the ‘I’) and that represents the size of the eggs in your ovaries. Only one is released each month and you have 400 or so of them. Guess what? A boy’s/man’s sperm is 400 times smaller than that. It only takes just one sperm to fertilize an egg. If there are dozens of sperm in the clear fluid (pre-cum) at the end of a man’s penis in his urethra, those can get transfered to your vagina and cervix and they’ll swim until they find that precious little egg and say, “Hello, Miss Egg. Would you like to become one and make a baby with me?”

Once the sperm wiggles itself using its’ enzymes to make a small hole in the egg’s protective layer and disappears inside, you are now pregnant. Then a force field blocks out all remaining sperm to keep too many them from entering your egg again. Too much DNA from the sperm in your egg makes deformed babies. Just like too much milk, flour or too many eggs, doesn’t make your pancakes, waffles or cake batter the way the recipe needs it to be. One egg + one sperm = one baby! So, with that being said, think of it this way…1 + 1 = 3. Better yet, male (1) + female (1) = baby (3)

If YOU can’t take care of that baby with medical, dental and visual benefits, if you can’t provide food, shelter and clothing, if you can’t can’t provide a safe place for your baby to live and thrive and even that for yourself as well, you have NO business having sex with anyone until you can provide a loving, positive and productive place to live. Yes, this does sound lame, corny and unrealistic however, when you get pregnant, you’ll be wishing you never would have had sex until you were in love and married. Good luck and stay in school, away from drugs/alcohol and get the best grades you can! It’s not your state’s job or America’s job to take care of your baby…it’s YOUR job for 18 years!