What do you think about friends with benefits?

No sane person thinks it is. Maybe if you’re between 18 and 23 (and especially if you’re male) it SEEMS nice to be able to have your sexual needs fulfilled regularly without having to commit to anyone, but eventually you’d want a meaningful relationship with someone.

That’s a good way to ruin a friendship. (Unless you can both agree that it is nothing more, and keep it that way. This is more easily said than done.)

i think they are a good thing becuase i think if you like the person whoever it is you can still do things with them but just not be in a relationship with them do you know what i mean

NO!! It’s a horrible idea. You shouldn’t do it. Okay, say you have sex with them, you get pregnant. Then what? I mean, you wouldn’t want to have a baby with a person who you didn;t even love, would you? No. And I don’t believe in abortion either. Its, in my mind, murder. Plain and simple. It’s already a life inside you, and you shouldn’t kill it.So, no, I don’t think the ‘’friends with benefits’’ thing EVER works out.

And even if you use protection there’s ALWAYS that risk that you could get pregnant. Every time you have sex, there’s that risk.

In my opininon I believe that friends with benefits are usually not okay but it is a thing some of us do and it could be okay in one in million but you have to know why you are dong it and friends with benefits do not have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and that means you are both free to be with whom ever you want but you have the chances of an STD no matter what the agreement was I would be cautious and for the feelings you may have in friends in benefits people can easily get hurt emotionlly by not knowing why you do it or what your intentions are and I believe the intentions is to mess around and that is all but I also believe it could be more confusing but I would just leave it at that just to be cautious well let me know if this is what you wanted to know

randyo… save your rants for a relevant thread…

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Captainassassin all I’m doind is giving my opinion. That’s what this site is for. And how about instead of judging me, you actually try to give some advice.