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What do you guys think, hmm??

Well, today my boyfriend came over. This was the first time he let me/ I wanted to put my hand down his pants, and when we were making out, he slipped his hand up the back of my shirt and moved it around to the front and up to my bra and lifted it up too, then at one point he slipped his hand down to my vag. and moved his fingers around, but he didnt want to pt his hands in my pants bc he doesnt wanna make me uncomfy. But, we were both being very aggressive when we were making out.

So,,,

WHAT DOES HE WANT EXACTLY??

Help anyone!!

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Answer #1

ask him. don’t try and read his mind. all relashionships need comunication. nothing will happen if you don’t talk about it.

Answer #2

If he’s like me, he was probably “in the mood,” but was afraid to go too far. He probably respects you and cares about you too much to make you uncomfortable or think less of him. He probably didn’t want you to think that he’s just a horndog like every other guy. He cares about you and didn’t know what your limits are. If you’re ok with him touching you under your pants and/or shirt, move his hand there. Trust me, a guy isn’t gunna be mad or grossed out that you did. You might have to move his hand there on more than one occasion, just to make sure that it’s always ok to do so.

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