What to do when my boyfriend's locked up?

i have ∀ bf and he’s locked  and his name is kelvin and ii really luv him a lot and ii will wait for him too but I’m still ∀ virgin and ii want to loOse it already but ii can’t cuz he’s locked up and he calls me and writes to me but wah should ii do to wait to have sex? And answer me goOd ii don’t want ∀ stupid answer thank u =)

Answer #1

good for you! glad to hear it!! High school is definitely a must! Just make sure he knows that if you fall in love with someone while he’s in there— he can’t expect you to throw it all away when he gets out. Thats just not fair to you!

Answer #2

Well thank u to the first one and ii don’t want to have sex in prision f* out of here well I’m 17 years old and he’s been in jail for 3 months and I’ve been with him for 1year and 9 months and ii knOw his family …but well ii told him that wen he comes out im gonna go back out with him…and for nOw ima focus on skOol…and have fun until he comes out…

Answer #3

Well, in answer to your question- stop thinking about sex by finding other things to fill up your life with or marry him and get conjugal visits to have sex with him- eeew, your first time- in a prison!

Answer #4

First of all, how old are you? If you are young and your bf is in juvi— a) you shouldn’t be involved with him at all because thats no way to start your life as a teen b) you shouldn’t be worrying about sex. You should worry about having a new relationship first, and then if it evolves from there into a sexual relationship then good for you

If you’re older I would have to say it usually isn’t a good idea to be involed with a guy from prison. As I have seen from news reports, etc alot of convicts use girls outside of prison for things they want/need. It’s just not right. Plus, thats no way of having a relationship (having to visit him ebhind bars or whatever)… I would say just tell him you can’t have a relationship when he’s in jail… but perhaps when he’s out you could– BUT NO GUARANTEES!!! (make sure he gets that part)

Answer #5

Well thank u to the first one and ii don’t want to have sex in prision f* out of here well I’m 17 years old and he’s been in jail for 3 months and I’ve been with him for 1year and 9 months and ii knOw his family …but well ii told him that wen he comes out im gonna go back out with him…and for nOw ima focus on skOol…and have fun until he comes out…

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