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What do I do when my sisters boyfriend is a jerk?

My sisters boyfriend is a a to everyone. But everytime I tell her he is doing it she does not think he is being one. This has been going on sense I first meet him. What do I do he is p* me off big time. Can you help me find a way to tell her that he is like this, PLEASE?

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Answer #1

What is your ultimate goal in trying to convince your sister that her boyfriend is a jerk? To have him leave you alone, or to have her break up with him?

If it’s the former, that’s already entirely under your control. If you don’t want to be around someone, don’t be around him. Find somewhere else to be and you’ll never have to put up with his jerk-ness again.

But if it’s the latter, you really need to mind your own business. Just because you don’t like someone doesn’t mean everyone has to agree with you. What you find jerky, she may find rougishly charming. What you find abrasive, she may find rugged. So you don’t think he’s a good boyfriend? Fine, no one said YOU had to date him. Leave your sister alone. Lord knows she’s going to have to put up with a lot of boys you date that she hates. Hopefully, you’ll both make it through like adults, be happy that they are happy, and keep your negative opinions to yourself.

Answer #2

tell your sis 2 dump him cause hes is a jerk tell her what he did 2 you and the truth be honest cause shell figer that out and keep up dating him.

or…BEAT DA F$CK OUT OF HIM!!!… yea I said it beat him up so he will go 2 hell and leave you alone, or the other thing

Answer #3

I’m in the same situation except my sister has 4 kids of his. She knows what he is but she is still with him. I’ve’ed told her plenty of times but she dont listen. The best way in my situation is not interving. Thats going to help me get along with my sister better. Trust me she knows him well enough but sometimes she does not want to see it. Good Luck God Bless

Answer #4

It’s often hard for people to see faults in those they care about. So if she’s not seeing it and doesn’t really care, unfortunately you’ll have to deal with it on your own if you have an issue with how he treats YOU. If he’s being offensive to you, tell him that you don’t particularly appreciate what he said or did. Be honest, or ignore him.

As for your sister, that’s her business. I wouldn’t meddle with their relationship if I was you. It will just push her away from you and cause issues.

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