What do I do if my friend wants to finger me!?

Well im 13,, and my friend wants to finger me and do things (he’s a male) And I want to do it. But will it hurt? And does it count as losing your ‘v’ if someone fingers yhoo?!? And what do I do when he’s fingering me? x

Answer #1

First thing, why you inside, your young enjoy the outdoors before you have to start working all the time. If he’s under 18, let him do it, you’ll have fun. And, no it does not count as loosing your virginity

Answer #2

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Answer #3

Only friends?? I dunno but it may get weird if you have a sexual activity. Why don’t you wait until you are in a relationship with someone?

Answer #4

Well first 13 is kind of young to start experimenting with sexual stuff, I mean you got other things to live for first, I didn’t start being sexually active until I was around 15. Try being in a relationship for a while before you start trying stuff, like it said above you can get a bad reputation for doing things like that at a young age but if you really want to try it then its up to you of course, and to answer your question… No it wont be classed as loosing your ‘V’ but it may hurt a little, all depends on how many fingers he uses and how fast the motion is… if your going to try it tell him to use one finger first until you get comfortable, hope it helped x

Answer #5

No it does not count has losing your virginity, but you may break your hymen which is technically your (cherry). They call it popping your cherry because it bleeds a little and the hymen breaks. That’s up to you, personally I waited until I was almost 15 to start experimenting and I did it with a boyfriend I had been with for a while. You shouldn’t start doing stuff with someone you aren’t even dating, especially at 13, that can get you a bad reputation and really fast and a reputation does not go away easily once you are labeled “easy”.

Answer #6

Oh, I forgot the hurt part. In order for it not to hurt, he can’t just go for the prize and finger you because you wont be ready and had enough lubrication. It means that you would first need to make out and take it easy. If you still have your hymen then it may break and that will hurt. What you do? Just get comfortable. Don’t feel obligated to do something in return for him, if you don’t want to. Make sure his hands are clean, nails cut without dirt under them. You will still be a virgin as long as a penis do not enter your vagina.

Answer #7

.yhu are tewh young

Answer #8

Were more then friends but just not together :/ We both have feeling for each other. Okaiis.!

Answer #9

i have a friend we have been friend sense kindergarten the first time i fingered her it was kinda weird for like 2 days but then we did it like once a week after that. but when she got a boy friend it was kinda weird because she still wanted me to finger her.

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