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What decision should I make with this?

okay ill be purely honest.

I may be stupid but I feel that what im doing is right. for the past 10 months I’ve been dating the most wonderful guy and we would do anything for each other. im not one of the normal lovey dovey couples who are stupid and just do whatever whenever. im smart and safe about things. my boyfriend suggested sex on his 18th birthday and well you can consider me jailbait since im only 15 turning 16 very soon, but I would do anything bad like that to him.

weve done the basics, foreplay with you know… fingering, 69, bjs, that kinda thing. well a while ago I was so into it it was rediculous. so we started doing well.. I know its weird but anal sex. and boy lemme tell ya I lovveed it.

it tortures me because it makes me want more but anyways. since im only 15 im not sure if I should have sex yet and let him take my virginity. it just doesnt seem right but at the same time it does. not to mention it seems very painful at first so im kinda scared but doesnt every girl feel that way at first? so im asking based on my age and everything that I’ve listed… what decision should I make? yes to sex or no ?

*my boyfriend is leaving in august for the army and I want to cherish the time we have left now.. siezing the day.

he wont be here for my 16th bday probably due to bootcamp although hell be here for my 1 year and prom.

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Answer #1

if your not sure about it, it means your not ready. you should be completely sure that its something you want to do before you do it. your age is a fine age to lose your virginity, but like I said, you should only take that step if your sure its what you want to do because once its done, you cant take it back.

and it shouldnt hurt that badly if youve already had anal sex! I can guarantee you that having anal sex for the first time is much more painful that having regular sex for the first time, so I wouldn’t really worry about the pain.

Answer #2

hunny ima tell you like this you can call yourself a virgin but your not you already had sex anal sweety you might as well go all the way

Answer #3

I Lost My Virginity At 14 To An 18yr Old So There Is Nothing Wrong With The Age Gap Just Make Sure your Ready And Go With The Flow Don’t Worry To Much

Good Luck :D

Answer #4

I’m sorry to say that you are NOT a virgin. Anal sex is sex. I’m know the following is hard to take but the odds of you two staying together after he leave is zero to none. Do you really want to do any more and then be left alone with it?

Answer #5

IT DOESN’T MATTER THE DEFINITION OF A VIRGIN IS A GIRL WHO HAS NOT BEEN PENETRATED BY A PENIS IN THE VAGINA AND A BOY WHO HAS NOT PENETRATED HIS PENIS INTO A VAGINA. Sure she isn’t anally a virgin, but she is a virgin.

Do whatever feels right, peoples ignorant advice isn’t going to help you make a better decision, they are too busy judging you.

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