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What can I do to up my self confidence? pls help?

I don’t know why, but lately I’ve been feeling really ugly, fat…I’m noy even sure why. I do have some curves, I have a lot of friends…I have been told that I am pretty and beautiful and that I have a nice figure. Is this normal though? I haven’t had a boy friend yet and I feel like it could be because of the way I look. (If you really wanna know more about the boyfriend thing, you can add me and funmail me because you have to be mu friend to fm me) I have seen guys check me out. I mean, I just feel terriblr half the time. Sometimes I’ll be like…I look freaking awesome, an then I’ll be the total opposite. I have a good sense of humor about things so that helps. I’m a littleover weight, but I go to the gym and I’m very active. My mom sayd that I can thin out if I want to and try and I do. My home life is good, no prob. I have diabetes and I always had this thought that that was why I haven’t had a boyfriend. But I do know that I shouldn’t give thta guy the time of day of a chance. I also feel like slapping my bff’s sometimes because they all think that they are fat but they are no AT ALL. I just hate when they say so. What can I do? thanks! :)

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Answer #1

honestly usually the prettiest girls are the ones whom havent had a boyfriend because guys are afraid to get rejected and this will lower their self esteem. sounds weird huh its true. and its okay I always feel this way I feel like I look good when I get dressed but when I get out of my house im like what was I thinking wearing this. first step, dont care what people think about you anymore because their opinion will usually be what we dont want to hear. if someone says something mean just laugh like you know its not true. walk tall with your chin up like you know your the hottest thing around speak loudly so people can hear you. if you practice this it will start coming out naturally this I just explained to you a confident person. it can always help if you lose a couple of pounds you will immediately feel more confident. im not a confident person lol and I also never had a boyfriend but I have researched confident people im actually a really shy person. and guys will come to you how old are you anyways?

Answer #2

It also isn’t all the time lol…Now I feel a little better. It’s not like I hate myself because I don’t. :P Thanks 4 answering.

Answer #3

well , your like a year older than me, so we’re pretty close :) I know how you feel! in sixth grade I was the jeans and hoodie girl! definately not the popular girl, but as the years went by, I started changing my style. but don’t be mistaken, I wasnt changing ME. I actually like the way I dress and make myself look. how you look FOR SURE ups your confidence. and if you got curves WORK THEM ! I’m a little flat chested, so be glad you have those curves. being skinny aint all that fun, its really hard to find clothes that fit me.

just try looking a little friendlier, and instead of waiting for people to talk to you talk to them. when you start getting more friends, you’ll feel more important( dont let it go to your head though.) and have more confidence.

I’d really love to give you more details if you were to fun mail me. there’s only so much you can put in a paragraph.

Answer #4

I’m 14

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