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So I'm 18 years old, and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month. Like, this morning I started getting really sick at the smell and taste of food and my boobs have been hurting a lot. So I think I might be pregnant. He doesn't think it's the right time and neither do I but I could never get an abortion or even consider adoption. I also don't want to lose him. He said he wants to be with me forever and we have talked about the future. Do you think he would leave me for this? What does he mean when he says "it's not the right time"? Does anyone think that maybe he would leave me if I am pregnant? He's very responsible and I know he's in love with me as I am with him but I can't help but worry. Some one please help!!
1st off you have only been dating a month. that says a lot. But if he leaves you its his loss. Its not the right time means he probably is not ready to have a child or a family financially and still is young himself and has things he wants to accomplish 1st. You guys should have considered things before having sex. Like a condom and consequences.
When he says "its not the right time", hes saying hes not ready for a baby right now! If he was so responsible, he would have played safe, and wore condoms! There is a possiblity he may leave you, but that is something that should have been taken care of BEFORE sleeping with him.
we did use a condom we were very safe he says he would never leave me so I guess I shouldnt worry about that..I talked to him like you guys said and he said that we would stay with me