What am I doing wrong with girls?

I am 17 year old boy and though I know I am nothing special to look at, I do try to be an good boyfriend but none of my relationships seem to last that long. But the thing is I always listen to their needs and never expect them to do or go anywhere they don’t want to and I buy them presents and spend money on them and just really treat them kindly as parents brought me up to but the relationships never seem to last more than a few months. What am I doing wrong I need help urgently???

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Answer #1

Maybe it’s not what you’re doing right, but what’s just not there. People get bored in relationships; no matter how hard they try to make it more exciting. To me, you sound like the kind of guy ever girl should want, minus the ‘…I know I am nothing special to look at…’ crap. Though most girls like conceited, smug asshole kind of guys, a guy with low self-esteem is also a turn-on for me. But eh. I bet you look fine. People have told me some pretty harsh shit about my looks and weight, and then when I talk to guys and even some girls, they tell me I’m pretty and crap. But, anyway, yeah, you are not doing anything wrong I can assure you. If those shallow women that base people on looks and not personality, can’t see what a great guy someone is, then they don’t deserve to be loved by anybody at all, especially not someone like you.

Answer #2

hmmm maybe your not that spontaneous…girls loves that…nice and a bit of naughtyness ;)..it works for me..we love adventure

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