Why didn't it feel good when he touched me?

saying that to a guy is cool i wish my girlfreind would say something like that but you have to be into the moment. Possibly try this after making out and guide his hand down there. Make sure he dosent go to quick and tell him what you like and how you want it done.

To enjoy any or*l pleasures you need to be emotionally excited too. so if hes all… “uh.. i dont want to..but ok…,” then yeah of course youre not going to enjoy. tell him not to be scared or anything and once he has confidence to start talking you maybe a lil dirty, then trust me itll make all the difference.

When he is fingering you… he has to reach a “shelf” at the top of the… god I dont remember these terms… opening… its about a finger’s length up. And If he goes up and down on that shelf… its supposed to feel really good. If your really looking for tips, go to cosmopolitain.com… they will have what your looking for.

Without getting into the nitty gritty… start with light foreplay…you know..touching and stroking each others bodies…and kiss!…just make sure your in the mood and arnt doing it simply because you feel its the right time…thats just boring…dont plan it…be spontaneous

kayla—it could be the techneche,or maybe he isnt giving it all he has,(emotionally)wish i were able to demonstrate.but cannot be so sit him down and take yur time and talk to him and gide him thru it the way yu feel , maybe he;ll be understanding,love is a great thing win its performed right,thats wy people search for it caus they r sexually frustrated.let me no how it gos.by

IT COULD B CUZ U WERENT IN THE MOOD OR LK SOME PPL SAID U JUST WERENT WET ENOUGH THEN ALSO IT COULD JUST B HIM MAYBE HE WASNT READY TOO EMOTIONALLY OR HE MAYBE FELT LK U PRESSURED HIM INTO IT THERE COULD B ALOT OF POSSABLITIES BUT IT COULD B ALOT OF REASONS U SHOULD JUST WAIT 4 THE RIGHT MOMMENT DONT PLAN IT JUST LET IT HAPPEN BUT YA LK A COUPLE PPL SAID IF U FEEL UR IN A GOOD MOMEMT JUS SLOWLY GUIDE HIS HAND DOWN THERE IF U JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT WAT HE FEELS BOUT DOIN THAT OR N E THING U SHOULD B OPEN WITH HIM ASK HIM WAT HE FEELS ABOUT IT N TELL HIM WAT U WANT OR FEEL LET HIM KNO WATS UP SIT DOWN AND JUS TALK WITH HIM!