Weed and friends

Could I try cutting off all communications with my best friend until he stops doing weed do you think this might help with his addition I mean they say friends dont let friends drive drunk and well I guess friends dont let friends get high but how do I stop him? I know its is his life and his dicisons but he doesnt even do his work in class anymore all he does is sleeps and he is failing 2 classes how do I get him to care?

Answer #1

how did you finally stop? what convinced you?

Answer #2

Weed is mentally addictive, but really that is besides the point… the weed is not making him stop doing his work and the weed is not making him not care… something else is going on… you might want to try that approach…

Answer #3

I would slowly back away..play the busy card sooner or later hell get the picture. but you have to keep in mind it is HIS decision..and its your decision to back away..that may end yalls friendship but if it means that much hell get it

Answer #4

I was addicted to weed, one of my best friends wanted me to stop, and I couldn’t, she ended up giving up on me, It will make it easier if his friends stick by him instead if disowning him. Trust me that’s the worst thing to do, would you like it if you were going through a tough time, and instead of sticking by you your friends gave up?

Answer #5

to be honest with you there is nothing addictive about weed its all mental he does it because he likes it not because he is addicted. I have smoked for almost 5 years now and I dont regret it. the same thing happened to me in school but I fixed the problem but you leaving him alone isnt gonna make him stop honestly I think you should try and motivate him… give him a reason if you really thinks its that bad for him but either way I promise you weed is not an addictive drug I’ve quit for over a year and went back many times not because I was addicted but because I love it and its not a life ruiner

Answer #6

Ok. Be his friend and the worst-I repeat WORST thing to do is back out of a friendship at a time like this…they need you, dont support them maybe have a group of your friends join together and confront him about your feeling on the situaion… I had a friend and I know now it was the wrong thing to do but I gave up on her and I just left her atthat time…but she got some help and now we are closer than ever because with out comming to relization they dont get that its all real -they are in a perfect world where they cant get hurt by anything-

Answer #7

see thats what I didnt understand people told me that it wasnt addictive but then some people say they were addicted to it.

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