Violent Sex

well first off both you and her need to fully consent to it and want to do/try it and if shes says no to anything, dont continue, stop. you can do things like pump harder and faster and if shes into it, maybe some hair pulling, name calling, spanking, biting, whipping, ect ask her what things shed like to try and discuss with her what youd like to try

that is a personal decision. you both need to discuss what you’d like to try, and then go from there. you both have fantasies, and that’s what you need to explore. once you know what they are, live them!