urgent help for propsal...

Umm, you two just met. AND, you’re still married at the moment, so you probably don’t want to be getting serious with someone else so soon. I say this because although I’m not sure how divorce settlements go in India, your husband could use your new friendship with this man and make it a more difficult divorce, perhaps financially difficult, as he could use it as grounds for infidelity.

And really, a few days isn’t going to show you how this new man will treat you in the long run. For all we know, there’s even the possibility that he could turn out like your husband and get nasty in-laws too.

Here’s the fact though: You ARE desperate. You shouldn’t be though. You should even try to take a break for yourself after the divorce instead of just falling into one marriage/relationship after another. It sounds like you only like this guy for his money and social status. What I see you saying from your question regarding this man is like, “Wow, this great rich guy is interested in lil ol’ humble me! I can’t believe it! Girls must be throwing themselves at him, so I must get to him before they do!”

So here’s what I think. Since you’re still married, which is kinda an important point here (!!), go ahead and get to know this guy, but please keep it within the limits of friendship for now until you settle your marriage.

Another thing is how bogus/immature the story sounds: 3 days of knowing each other and already talking intimately, and then he confesses that he loves you. I think that the two of you are just very lonely people, and he is probably desperate himself. He wouldn’t be on a dating site if girls were throwing themselves to him, unless he’s a player. Which could also be the case here, so be wary about that. He may even not be who he says he is. Never trust strangers on the internet. So proposing to him even before you meet is such a bad idea, I don’t know any other nicer way to tell you that.

Therefore, try to have some self control and be careful when you do go meet this guy.