two dates and no call

I need your thought or opinion.

I met this guy very briefly and gave him my number. I met in the park and we sat and talked for two hours. I kissed him twice that time. We made out in the park on bench across from the river. He asked me about sex when we were leaving. I said that im not interesting in that. He called me the next day. I missed his called. I called him the same evening. We talked. He tried to plan to see me again but I was busy. we texted each other a few times after that. And talked once too about meeting him.

A week had pass and I told him I was free friday. He said lets meet at his ‘crib’. I went to his house to watch a movie. We did watch a movie and make out sometimes during the show. When the movie ended though we started kissing again and we were lieing on the bed holding each other while still making out.

He called me the night and the two days after that. I called him the next day also. I told him I had a list of things I hated about him. but we never got through the list He was very confident and assure of himself and agree with what I had to say. I wasn’t rude or disrespectful, I was just stating the fact. I called him the day after. He Didn’t call me back its been TWO DAYS since that.

I feel like he is not interested in me. But I have mixed feeelings to call him. We made plans to go out to his party for the next week, which I would love to attend as its his birthday and the day before I go back to college.

Please if you read all of things tell me what you think. Be out right honest with me.

Answer #1

To make that list is like doing an evaluation on him. Did he know you were making up this list ? Or did you suprise him with it ? Whatever the case it was too soon.

Answer #2

Also the list wasn’t all about things I hated. WE never finished talking about it. I had things I adore about him too on it. they were at the end. I just felt that those things were really important to me and over looking them or ignoring them would have been a horrible thing.

Answer #3

Mistake number one was not being interested in sex “at all”. Biggest mistake was making the hate list. A hate list is fine maybe 6 months into a relationship, but not in the timeframe you did it in. It seems he is probably looking at other interests.

Answer #4

well in my opioin you shudnt have had a list because your looking for the inperfection of a person …and trust me noones perfect but the fact that you m,ad a list hes probably hurt …call him and leave him a nice voice mail or txt meassage saying sorri and how myuch your look foward to the party and hoe you hope that you didnt ruin things

hope I helped plzzz answer my recent question

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