Trying to win over a girl.... would like girls & guys advice on th

hey i think you should be totally honest with the girl and tell her how you feel over a small candlelight dinner…………….so be yourself and be honest…………well later babe brandi

HONESTLY YOU GIVE SOME OF THE BEST ADVICE AND YOU NO IN YOUR HEART THE BEST WAY TO GO THRU WITH IT SO ALL I CAN SAY IS FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND DONT LET TO MUCH TIME PASS YOU BY….THATS OFTENT THE BIGGEST MISTAKE!!!

Wow Babe..Just tell her it isnt that hard..let her know how u feel..

Hey _ her name..I really like you I wanna be with you I care about you i could make u the happiest woman alive..Trust me i die for that

hey im pretty open about sex what about me?lol and id chose colorado…its tight..pretty!!! haha.and this has changed with the recent unveiling of her personal life i agree that it might be too soon for her to develop feelings of this kind again…you might even scare her off if you tell her what you want between you both.but dont quit on her just yet.you might be on to something. -v-

I think that you should tell her because, if she means everything to you then you are being unfair to yourself and the relationship that you guys share. And if you guys have kissed then there has to be a chance, cause you don’t forget stuff like that. Be upfront with her let her know how you feel, and if this is the gurl that you plan to spend the rest of your life with; then go for her and don’t let anyone stop you, cause gaffneygirl is behind you a 100%.

                                                                                                                Your friend
                                                                                                                             Jessica

Trust me, I understand where you are coming from 100% and well i’m with 100% on telling her, but its not something i want to jump into head first. The thing is she got out of a long relationship last year, and this year she just lost her v card, and she was really one that it ment alot to her, and so i think she is done with guys for a while, and if she starts dating again… what can you do right… it was ment to happen… I don’t want to jump into something like you said where i cant be there physically. However if I could be around her enough to get married then we could live together where ever i am stationed!! ha… okay now i am so dreaming. As far as your thing goes, why dont you take her out to dinner or make her dinner, and spark it back up ?? I don’t know if i could handle being married with no sex… i would lose it

lol goodtimes… i have had my gf fall asleep on me a few times… heh but thats after we had sex 5 times in a row! … haha but in all seriousness i have had a girl fall asleep on me without that… oh well what can u do..

Btw.. how are the chicks in europe? Because i am thinking about requesting my duty station there…. its that or colorado… what would you choose?

Hey nothing is set in stone yet or diamonds if you want to get specific. ;)

Its complicated, and I dont really want to explain it, I would like to go at it at a different angel and make it be “her idea” to want to go out with me or to make it more “invovled” i dont want to put it in her head that I want that at this time, i think it would be to complicated to have a relationship and this very second, I need to go through basic training and then settle down in my station… werever that maybe, most likely germany… and then play it by ear from there, but for the time being, I want to build up the little things that i do for her so she can make that assumption herself. Does that make sense?

jesh ppl try to understand this guy…he dosent want her to fall in love.at least not yet because he will be gone for so long and so far away.AM I RIGHT??

well the necklace thing does work wonders….i can attest to that. theyve given you so many good scenarious…..as to my advice …well its on the flowers….go with something other than roses…violets or gardinias.something different.good luck -v-

I am not playing mind games, I just dont want to tell her i like her and not really be able to be with her, but I still would like to show her that I would be with her if I could, and if the time comes, then all those things will be in the back of her mind that I really care etc… its not that I wouldnt go up and make it known that i want her if I could… but i cant… im probobaly going to be stationed in Germany or colorado… so its kind of out of the way..

ps. sorry for the bad typing i am on like 3 hours of sleep go me

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Its without the vase also…

haha… its more complicated then that. I can’t tell her, it doesn’t work that way in this situation.