To marry or not

OK here is my advise… DO NOT GET MARRIED becasue she is pregnant. But I will say this…. You are now a father, if you wanted to be one or not it happened and you both made your mistake, but the child is NOT a mistake. You need to be able to have a good friendship with her, and you need to support and take care of the child. Who knows, you may even find yourself falling deeply in love with this women if she proves to be an incredible mother and you guys work out the things that have kept you breaking up over nd over. You may find a future there you didnt think was possible. Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side. You say she is a good women, maybe you should take a good look at your self first, are you a good man? First off if she loves and respects you, thats not always easy to find, in addition if she is willing to carry your child and sacrafice her body and life, she sound pretty special. I am not saying marry her at all but give your selves time to communicate and become better friends, it maybe what you really needed all along. As for being able to commit to someone, you will definitly want to commit to being a father to the child, but you may also want to consider growing up ( I know its fun to be a kid, just be a kid at heart).. and taking inventory on your self. Do you really want to grow old alone? I dont know maybe you do? Just because you are commited to someone it doesnt mean the fun is over, every relationship takes work no matter who you are with and what stage you are in. If your waiting for someone better to roll along , guess what, every one has flaws even super models and porn stars. Sounds like you need a few weeks to think things out and really get to know yourself. Good luck with what ever you do, things like this are never easy.