I cant take it no more my mum is like a serpent breathing down my neck one foot out of line and she comes down on me like a ton of bricks , just lately I have asked her if I can be put on the pill because of my periods are really bad , and she straight away started accusing me of just wanting it for contraception , which is not true , but in away it is cous I am sexually active it will help with contraception in the long run , , my boyfriend wants me to move in with him because he does not like the way I am treated by the rest of my fam , his dad and him are really good to me and I really want to go ahead but I have my gcse's coming up and with all this family buisiness I have not been able to concentrate and im worried I am going to fail help me please
While there are many valid medical reasons for being put on the pill other then contraceptives, over the counter pills have come a long long way as far as helping with symptoms. As much as it may suck you have to think "what if this were your daughter?" It is your mothers job to protect you and while right now some of things she does to protect you are hard to understand, SOMEDAY FAR DOWN THE ROAD, when you become a mother it will start to make more sense.
Now on a lesser note. How can you blame your mother when not long after you posted this question you also stated another question in which you talked about wanting a baby now and have had that want since you were 13?!?
I know you dont want to heart his but YOUR MOTHER ISNT STUPID!
YOU'RE FIFTEEN!!!
ahem - sorry -
Admit it, you do want the pill for contraception... otherwise you'd just take midol. Mum's not an idiot. If your periods are sooo horrible make mum take you to the doctor for that reason and hear from the doctor prescribing it. I highly doubt mum is going to trust her self-prescribing 15 yr old.
and moving in? at least live on your own first and be independent. You still need to find out who you are and what you yourself like. Not as an attachment to a parent or a man.
things might fizzle with your man then you'll be too scared to be on your own and you'll jump to another man... very unhealthy.
Mum is responsible for you until you're 18. Give her some slack.
xox Sika
I do not want the pill for contraception because if you read my other question its about me wanting to have a baby . but I have decided to wait to have a baby its for the best , and plus I have just been offerd the job I wanted wich it icludes me to work most of the time ... I have tried taking different meds for my period and in the end the pill is most suitable for my period
your 15, go play outside and ride your bike in the the park with friends and play kickball thats what I did.
