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still love my ex

my ex broke up with me…then a week later asked me back out…then two hours later broke up with me again! I know he has a lot of issues (family mostly) and that that puts a factor in things, but he says he still loves me…what do I do? I also know that he REALLY likes my best friend, so that messes thins up too, but she does not like him AT ALL and she has a boyfriend…but still, him liking her bothers me. he told me that I was the only girl he had ever truly loved, and I know he doesnt lie. im so confused.

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Answer #1

If I were you, I wouldn’t bother with him anymore. It sounds like he’s too caught up in his own life and can’t make up his mind. I can understand that he has family issues, everyone does at one point, some worse than others, but it doesn’t give him the right to drag you through so much stress and confusion. He will likely just break your heart again (and again and again…) if you keep getting back together with him. People like that seem to be more likely to cheat, from what I’ve noticed. I myself have never been through something like that, but I have quite a few female friends who have.

Honestly, you can do a lot better. Find a guy who will treat you well, not a confused boy who can’t ever decide on what he wants.

Answer #2

Well it sounds like he is just extremely attracted to your friend and his little hormones just can’t control themselves. He just needs to learn how to watch what he says and does. As far as what you need to do with your relationship with him…you need to act like he doesn’t matter to you. When he calls you, you act like you don’t care if he calls you or not. Don’t call him back sometimes…say that you got busy doing something else. Don’t call him at all. That is going to drive him CRAZY. Believe me. Men always want what they can’t have. Family or not.

Answer #3

he told me that I was the only girl he had ever truly loved, and I know he doesnt lie. >>If that were the case, he wouldnt have broken up with you. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! Hes messing with your head, and your falling for his every word, but the truth is, if he really did love you, he would still be with you, no matter if he has family issues or not. I think he has more feelings for your friend, than he does for you.

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