So what would you call this?

So this, guy, we met once. For around five minutes. t’s been seven months. and we’ve talked on the phone for almost three hours twice a week.s he texts me everyday, a good morning and a good night. he’s asked me out, but I keep saying no. I’ve said no from the beginning, and it’s been seven months and he’s still talking to me.

I’ve SHOT HIM DOWN, I’ve used such hardwords like, bullet through chest, “Your intelligence, disgusts me. Perhaps you don’t realize I don’t want anything to do with you and I want to keep you at a distance, you pig.” Type shut downs. “Whatever would make you think that you are someone I want to associate myself with” type shots and “You’re a creep and I really wish you’d get lost, I’m not going for coffee with you.”

Things like that. I’ve been SO COLD, so RUDE. And all my friends know, my family know…I’m one hell of a shut down master. It’s probably why guys are so “intimidated” by me, but whatever.

and now…I enjoy talking to him. and its been seven months. BUT ITS BEEN ALL THRU TECHNOLOGY. tho seriously. EVERYDAY I talk to him. We’ve never gone more than 2 days without communicating and now im afraid and theres nothing like this on the internet.

you know, five signs he’s interested, but they are all “he looks at you, etc. etc” but were never together. I only have his voice and words. and when he talks to me he matches my tone, and my volume…is that something?

what is this? what do you think he’s trying to do here? what am I doing? help!!!

Answer #1

I have broken conversation tho. thats what im saying. I have said NO and stopped talking to him for weeks but then my inbox gets filled up. my phone is filled with good mornings and good nights.

and then I just say hi. only recently, in this seventh month have we been talking 3 hours a week… and I’ve said I want to be friends ONLY now. its stepped up from “I dont want to see your face.” but how can he like me…if we’bve only met ONCE for around five minutes!?!?! he asked me out for coffee when I met him and I said I had to go. and my friend the prankster gave him my email and then I used him as a form of entertainment…cause im mean, I’m sorry. and stopped and then he found my number on facebook or something.

and now I dont know what to think. help!

Answer #2

I think that you are very hardheaded and now it got through to you that he really does like you. I think that you should stop being scared and give it a chance what do you have to loose? And yes it is possible for you guys to really like each other even though you have only been in person one short time. Because you have been talking, give him a chance girl, he hasnt given up on you why do you show him the same respect and try it!!! Im sure you will have no regrets!! :)

Answer #3

are you kidding me? please, read what you just wrote. if you have shot him down, you say you don’t like him, and you wish he’d “get lost” then why on earth are you even talking to him everyday in the first place. if you don’t want him bothering then DON’T TALK TO HIM for 3 hours a week. how simple is that? HE LIKES YOU. and you’re obviously giving him the wrong idea if you continue to talk to him for hours at a time. he probably thinks you like him too, but just playing hard to get. clarify one final time that you’re not interested, and break off communication.

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