So there's this boy...

I would like to start out by saying, this is corny and dumb and long… I am in 8th grade, and there is a boy I like, win. we started being friends because his best friend is dating mine, and so we all sit together. he is incredibly shy but not so much around me. I have went to a couple of his soccer games with my friend (her boyfriend is on the team too) and us four hung out after. kinley and pierre (my friends that our dating) notice that he has gotten so much more comfortable around me. and we talk twice a day usually online. we have art and english together…in art he sits across from me and always talks and usually walks back with me. in english he alwys sits next to me and we talk. but my other friend told him I liked someone (win) and now he keeps trying to find out who it is. and when I tell him I am not going to tell him he gets really upset, or says something like “I knew you weren;t going to tell me anyway”…I do not know what to do, if he likes me, and why is he like this? I like him a lot and although others disagree I feel like sometimes he is comfortable around me because I am like a friend. I just dont know.

Answer #1

that is what I am confused about, if he finds out will we not be friends? wont it be awkward?

Answer #2

have one of your friends drop a hint that you like him. if he’s more comfortable around you then he probably likes you. the worst that could happen si he doesn’t like you, but you guys would still probably be friends.

Answer #3

if you really like him tell him how you feel so you two wont be the 3rd and 4th wheel to your friends, this might make things less ackward between you and him.

Answer #4

tis not like we are 3rd and 4th wheels, we all hung out together even before they started dating. and I do enjoy being his friend so I dont want to make it awkward and ruin it.

Answer #5

Okai I’m a girl n I’m going to seventh grade n I delt with stuff like this before I’m pretty sure he likes u so if u really like him you have to tell him how u fell n if he is truly ur friend things shouldn’t seem akward between u two just relax and say it or if ur too scared to say it talk tell himm online or write a love note to him trust me I tried all of these thing myself don’t be scared it won’t be akward u can’t let ur feeling bottle up inside or you will be like me I have this boy I’m in love with n I haven’t told him that I am in love with him so do this for .e n tell him how u feel okai :-)

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