Situation

right well… im 17, been with a girl whos a year older.. she cheats on me.. ok…

problem I have… is she still wants to be friends… yet shes with another guy.. And I came to the conclusion that there are only 2 things I can do. Either cut her off and not speak to her… or try and peruse a friendship that I know will hurt because I know shes with somebody else…

By cutting her off and not speaking to her… its gunna hurt because I still really care for her.. And by trying to stick it out and be her friend even though I really want to be with her… is also going to hurt… it will just be prelonged pain..

either way im gunna be more hurt…

It would be so much easier if I could find a girl who didnt turn out to be a bi*ch in one way or another… Sux I guess -.-

Answer #1

You don’t have to do either. You can still be nice and be friendly. But you don’t have to be so close with her that it hurts. Hope that was helpful.

Answer #2

how about you move on, and just forget her. show her that you can do better without her. well, I mean, if you dont want to, you dont have to. you can always be like, “hi, bye” friends. but yeah, her loss :)

Answer #3

Oh reallyhaha… Obviously not hot enough :( lol!

Thanks for all the comments bythe way :)

Answer #4

I don’t know…but your hot :]

Answer #5

I know exactly what you mean. To me, if someone treats you bad and cheats on you. She doesn’t deserve to be in your life. Yes it’s hard because you still care about her and only time will heal the pain. I think if you want to try and be friends she is just going to try and make you jealous of the guy she is with, and that’s going to be harder than to cut her off. Think about what you want and follow your heart. If you want to try and be friends then try it just know that there’s a good chance it won’t work out because there are still feelings there and you still care about her. By cutting her off yes it is going to hurt for a little while but like I said over time it will get easier you’ll find someone who will treat you with respect and care about you.

Answer #6

if I was you I would not want anything to do with her as she is not worth it but my boyfriend has never cheated on me and I am now pregnant so its a bit difficult for me to answer your question. good luck.

Answer #7

Dude Honestly f* it. Dont give someone who mistreats you the time of day. Im sure she know that you care about her a lot and if thats not enough then forget about it and move on I know that its sucks but by her doing something like that is pretty low and you deserve better than that, we all do. and your most likely more mature than she is so dont waste your time too much just be a casual friend as much as it hurts you’ll get used to it and when she gets off your mind,before you know it you will meet some one. there is plenty other fish in the sea lol. =]

Answer #8

I have been there my friend and I tried to be the friend and trust me it wont work better to get it over with and just say goodbye it will hurt but not as much as something long and drawn out would it will hurt every time she want to hang out with but the new guy comes or when she wants hang out and being around her makes the feelings you stay nothing good can come of it you will never get over here as long as you get a taste of what being with her is like good luck this may sound dumb but when I had to decide to cut her off I played the the song the hardest thing by 98 degrees

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