should I pick up or dont pick up

For a long distance relationship you 2 should deffinately talk more. If he thinks he can just call you when he wants after like 4 weeks I wouldnt pick up, because that tells him you arent just sitting around waiting for him to call, and when you don’t pick up it might make him wonder what your doin and call you up more. But I really think you should start callin him more if you want this to last or tell him to start calln you more

Just talk to him and see what is going on, be honest. Why don’t you try giving him a call? I’m also in a LDR as well, we talk on the phone everyday for probably over an hour. I am also very good friends with his best friend so if he was cheating on me he would tell me. If you work things out and he still calls every few weeks you should ask yourself if this man is worth waiting for.

Good luck!

Girl. you’re in a Long Distance and you don’t talk to each other everyday? I myself am in a LDR with the love of my life but we make it work by seeing each other as often as possible on weekends and stuff. But when we can’t see each other whenever we can we’ll text or phone each other and when we are both at home we’ll use Skype. LDR’s are hard especcially if you can’t trust the other person. It’s BEST to aviod LDR’s unless it’s someone you really know you want to be with and it’s the same for them because if not there is no point to it. All you have is being able to say “I have a boyfriend!” Girl if you like this bloke then talk to him about it. If he’s a decent chap and likes you he’ll understand but if he’s not bothered or get pissy about it don’t let him get you down.

As for the cheating you can NEVER know. So just do not worry about it at all. Cause when you’re in a relationship and you worry to death about cheating and end up getting really down and all the while your guy is being faithful then what good is that? Just do not worry about cheating until you have reason to believe it and just because he doesn’t call you often I do not believe is one of those reasons.

Good luck dear.