Should I have sex with him?

Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into sex. Sex is a huge deal, no matter what some people say. Guys see sex as totally physical and don’t get their emotions involved. Don’t let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with someone, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way.

Don’t be embarrassed or think you will sound immature by saying no to sex. Choosing not to have sex is VERY mature. It would be immature to be pressured into something you don’t want!

If he tells you, “If you loved me you’d do it”, come back at him with, “If you loved me you’d wait”. Sex is NOT the only way to show your love for another person. If he loves you, he will wait forever if needed.

Keep in mind that if it was meant to be with you and this guy, it was meant to be right for BOTH of you, not only for one of you.

Your teenage years bring a lot of changes in how you feel about yourself, family, friends and potential love interests - even if you don’t think about sex. No matter what your feelings on sex are, it may be smart to wait until something “feels right.” And even then, it’s a good idea to wait a few months. If it’s truly love, and it’s meant to be, it will survive and even grow stronger without sex. If it isn’t, then you will be really glad you waited and found that out, before you got intimately involved on a physical level.