Should I meet him or not?

Well I met this guy through my friend. We only stay about 50 mins from each other. We’ve been talking on the phone for a few months now and still haven’t met or seen each other. When we first started talking and I asked him what type of females he liked he seemed to like very thin ones. I told him I wasn’t one of them and he said okay well…what size jeans do you wear?? When I told him a 14 he slowly said my size was fine. He always acts like the females he used to deal with are so pretty. I have no problem meeting men but usually their no good, he seems to be okay other than bragging so much. He’s been trying to meet up with me for a while now and I always make up an excuse not to. I’m scared maybe he won’t like me. I don’t know when you do things like that you don’t know what to expect. He’s not into the whole camera phone thing he says it could be a fake pic and all that. He really wants to meet me and I want to meet him but what if he doesn’t like me? I wonder if I would meet his so called “standards”. It’s like all the guys that are jackasses want me but the ones that seem to be decent want so much. Should I just take a chance and see. I don’t have low self esteem but there is something about him that makes me feel like I have to be perfect. What do you think? I don’t want to get my feelings hurt…

Answer #1

really…I say if you have coinfidence, meet him if your scared about what he thinks…then I wouldnt you dont need to be crushed over a guy who obbsess’s over looks when you have personality and looks I find that guys who care so much are jerks but thats just me

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