Should I just get over him?

I asked this question before in the past about this guy that I’ve liked but here’s a little detail I forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don’t know my situation, there’s this guy who I liked since last year May and before I liked him, he would stare at me all the time and then I eventually started to like him and I finally told him on msn that I liked him and at first he didn’t believe me then he told me he had a girlfriend. but after that, he would still stare at me and he started to act fidgety whenever I would pass by him.he even talked to me on msn after the incident I asked some people that knows him if he has a girlfriend and they said they highly doubt that. okay I’m not being racist or anything but he’s indian and I’m black and I heard they can’t date out of their race or religion so I was wondering if that’s why he said he had a g.f, or maybe he just panicked? didn’t take me seriously? what do you guys think? should I just get over him? btw, we were just classmates, we weren’t friends before

Answer #1

He definitely likes you. Does he have a facebook or myspace? That can give you clues as to if he really has a girlfriend or not. Not being Indian myself, but living in a community comprised of a large Indian population, it does seem that it is shunned to date outside the Indian race. Now not all are like that, but it definitely does happen. He may be very close to his family and they may be very traditional. Quick story: my one friend who is Indian said she doesn’t date non Indian boys because it is unfair to them because she knows she will never marry them because she has to marry someone from her culture and religion. Let me know if you need anymore advice! :)

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