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Should I b with him?

Kk, I know this guy is cheating in me, and has 4 a long time, but I can’t help but not being with him. Like yesterday my friend called and said, “becka, dont b mad or nothing, but your boygriend just called me up and said I was hot and wanted 2 go out with me and told me not 2 tell u.” I wasn’t mad at her or anything, but it bothers me that he is cheating.. A lot! He make me feel special, and I always get butterflies around him. The thing I don’t get is that, sometimes it’s like were not even dating, like he emails mean talks 2 me in the phone, but we nvr c each other in person. The thing im worries about is that next year in school he’s gonna b around me a lot, and it’s gonna make it akward 4 me and him. I dunno what 2 do. Please help.

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If you’re still going out with him, as hard as it may be, my personal opinion is that you should dump him. My reason for that is that if he’s cheating on you, he doesn’t care enough about you, if he starts to want to go out with your friend then he’s DEFINITELY not worth it. If you carry on with the relationship, you’ll probably just feel worse. Maybe you should try not to be around him as much as possible, maybe if he’s standing near you, you could move away a bit discreetly. Try not to start conversations with him, if he says “hi” or something like that then obviously you can say hello back. I can’t really say it properly because I’m tired so sorry if this sounds a bit odd or if you don’t understand lol. Basically don’t throw yourself at him or get involved with him too much again. Good luck :)

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