Hi. I haven't had sex yet, and I don't think I want to. The reason I don't want to, is because I haven't found someone special enough to have it with yet, and Im really religious, so I think that its important to wait until marriage. I want sex sometimes though, and I masturbated a couple times. I tried thinking of a guy that I once loved but I still couldn't picture that it was him doing in to me. I just wonder what it would be like If I did decide to have sex, and if you guys think I should or not. I definitely won't with someone just because I want it... I want them to be of special importance to me. Any ideas what I should do to stop having these urges to be dirty and fool around?
I know how you feel because I somtimes have those urges also.But, you shoudn't do it until you are married and love that person and Know that that person will not do any harm at all to you or anyone you know.Never forget cheat on you!!I have heard of some people getting their girlfriends drunk and then having sex.So whatever you do if your boyfriend does get you a drink if it is an achohalic drink make sure you don't have alot or if you do don't get drunk.And if he does and you think it is an achohalic drink first, smell it.I fit smells like like an achohalic drink either leave or go get a non alcohalic drink or if you think it is the right thing to do get back at him.I hope you find my advice yousful!
well, i agree about keeping ur virginity. it really is a sacred bond between two married people. Sometimes i want it too, but then again doesnt everyone? Try to keep holding on to what u believe in. Just think if u save ur self for ur husband, then when u get married, your love will be that much stronger and pure. Wouldnt you just love to tell ur husband that u saved urself for him? I know that he will love that too. So its up to u, but i hope my advice helped.
-good luck
