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Soo…I’m in a dilema. I met a boy last summer..and we continued to talk over the year. He moved to cali and I stayed in the midwest. he recently moved back to the midwest and my girlfriends and I went to visit him and his friends. basically…I want to know if he is interested in me :

  • I showed up and his friends that I have never met before…were like “oh…we’ve heard lots of things about you” - all good.
  • we went out/flirted/ and danced together all night.
  • he bought me drinks and we would just have random conversations.
  • the next afternoon…he admitted that he liked me and that he wanted us to date. I said “yes” but I still liked my freedom and that I would see him, when I would.
  • we ended up having sex…and after that we continued to hang out..and nothing was wierd.
  • I left back home (8 hours away) and didn’t talk to him all week - until I messaged him and told him I was coming back to his city for interviews in 3 weeks…he said he would be in town that weekend.

I like him…but does he have interest in me? I think I made a mistake by sleeping with him. Need advice…asap!

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Answer #1

Just for the record, guys don’t really pay attention to “easy” or “need to chase.” We like who we like, same as you. It’s unfortunate that so many people get their “what guys want” advice from Cosmo instead of from an actual guy.

Answer #2

Your right, you made a HUGE mistake sleeping with him. The fact that you didnt even hear from him until YOU messaged him, suggests he isnt interested in you that way. Just for the record, guys like the chase, they dont date easy girls.

Answer #3

Well you said nothings really changed between you two except the fact that you guys didn’t talk for like a week. He said he wants to date you and what not so…why do you think he’s not interested in you? Go hang out with him and talk to him. Then, you might get the answer you’re looking for. Good luck!♥

Answer #4

well…you need to tlk 2 him ask him if he truly likes you if he says no dump him if he says yes well…you no da rest

Answer #5

So let me get this straight… He introduced you to his friends, took you on dates, bought you things, danced with you, and TOLD YOU HE WANTED TO DATE YOU, and you’re wondering if there’s a chance he MIGHT be interested in you?

coughs

Okay then. What exactly do you want him to do, tattoo “Go out with me” on his scrotum? I think he’s done everything possible to show you his interest.

Answer #6

well…you need to tlk 2 him ask him if he truly likes you if he says no dump him if he says yes well…you no da rest

Answer #7

OMG mikeh I TOTALLY agree with your first and second answer!!! I mean how much more can the guy do to show he’s interested??? Mikeh is 100% right about what he said=]

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