I have been married 23 years...to the same man...we have gone through a lot....but now our sex life is non-exsistent....maybe once a month...if I'm lucky....maybe the old saying about it getting old is true can you give me some pointers on what to do .....thanks...the ole lady
WOW 23 years is a long time so im sure you are very comfortable with each other, listen after all those years maybe you should start dating again, do some thing unexpected answer the door when he comes in some hot lingre. rollplay, play french maid and serve him dinner get some adult books and video. maybe there is a reason for the lack of labito does he have a medical issue. if not than talk to you husband and see how receptive to new ideas he will be. spontainous is all ways exciting. but you know him best. ther are many discreat adult shopps online and stores im sure you can find some thing if not as a cupple than for yourself.
ask him or when you go in bed make a move