Should I send my ex best friend a message?

she’ an EX so why do you want to send her a msg ?

if u mean getting her back , in case ur made her be ur ex then yeah send her a msg , and talk nice :) if just for nothing , then dont !

I dont wanted to loose him as a friend.Iv missed him soooo much as a friend and i want to tell him im ok and im not in my depression state he left me at.

Dont do it. It will do no good at all. I’ve been somewhat in your place. It will just make you feel worse.

ahhh he’s a boy ! ehm , then look , he his not ur BEST FRIEND cuz u said u had a depression prob and he left you without help ,, best friends are for HELP and COMFORT ! girl look , what do you want ? get him back ? let him do that , if he didnt do that , then that means he doesn’t want you any more and he can continue without ya .. ryt ?

Don’t there’s no point. He abandoned you when you needed him the most. Writing a letter to him will only bring back memories and cause you hurt. Better to just be strong and move on. I know you miss him, but in the end, he proved an invaluable friend.

You know what? I disagree with everyone here - I think you should. This isn’t about moving on, or avoiding bringing up old feelings - it’s about closure, and I think it’s important that you have that. Showing him that you’re doing well will make your current state feel more concrete and give you the strength to put something awful behind you.

I think you should, otherwise you may always have that what if feeling.

I think you should it really doesn’t matter. :) I talk to my ex best friends all the time

sounds like you need closure, once you do that, move on…Good Luck!

I think you should. :)

Yes i think you should tell your okay and that your doing fine. Try to make friends with him and keep the peace you both will feel better about saying hello to each other just dont do anything to pushy

I agree with Colleen ludgate

My best friend recently abandoned me as well. She went through EVERYTHING with me…. I understand completely what its like… it kills not to have your best friend around, and it hurts me now. I want to text or message her everrrryyydayyy but she pretty much told me to never talk to her again because I spent too much time with my boyfriend…. if its been a while then yes try to make up with him, you got nothing else to lose right? Might as well try to patch things up and if he accepts your “apology” or whatever then you have your best friend back…. if not then you are in the same place you are now! :)

Yeah its been a while. Almost 12 mounths and i really miss him. i want to understand why he didnt want to know me anymore as he didnt give me a reason.

You should just let it go and move on…

I think you should send him a message.Not to let them feel you need them or that you are missing them but the biggest fact of facts is that you actually are.This update is a proof that you actually are missing that person.

Now why I say you should send them a message is because they once may be long ago but he/she once did care for you and you meant something to them.

Who knows? He might be wishing to do the same,he might be terribly missing you.So why don’t you give it a chance.

And it’s not going to kill you,sending the message might even work out.If the message works then you will have a good friendship to cherish for maybe lifelong.And if it doesn’t just forget about it.But it’s worth a try.Waiting not doing anything is not worth loosing a friend.

*Doing some is better than doing none.

nooo’

no, because then you’ll began to care again. let it go and leave it alone. i believe he lost something special that should be revenge enough.

i missed my ex bf and i appoligized and he said i guess and i just didnt talk to him anymore its been about a week. he made me so mad and i went through alot so i could date him and all he says is i guess! but i think you should try to talk to him

Colleen is right i believe you should if you can put it behind you it will strengthen your friendship.

Colleen is right i believe you should if you can put it behind you it will strengthen your friendship.