How to not be second to my best friend anymore?

okay, my bestfriend is always there for me, and I dont know what I would ever do without her, she is the girl I go to just to get hyper, or just to hang around when im down. but lately she is the thing that is getting me down. im always compared to her, and I cant take it. everyone acts like she is perfect, gorgeous, good at sports, funny,ect. and I always feel second best all the time. mostly around the guy I like, who is always flirting with her. help?

Answer #1

I am different then her, thats the thing that I dont get, im friendly, and she is shy. I make the friends first, they meet her second. I dont know..

Answer #2

omg same best thing to do is be defferent. be crazy and outgoing. people will almost perfer hanging out with you over her then, because youd be really fun, not that your not fun now.

Answer #3

that’s gay. I don’t know then sorry.

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