Right or Wrong?

I am 17 years old.gonna be 18 after 7 months. I am not sure am pregnant or not. But is it better to keep the baby or is it better to take a pill and lose the baby? I know I am just 17 but I dont wont to lose my baby take a pill.But again if I keep the baby as well then how would I face the situation.what will I say to my parents.how will I face them?

In this age,could it be right to be a mother?or not?

Answer #1

My opinion, God put a baby there…and He doesn’t make mistakes.

Answer #2

If you were in my situation then what would you do?

Answer #3

If you were old enough to have sex you surely are old enough to be a mother…right? Its your desicion.

Answer #4

Abortion takes a Life - you were given a chance at Life.

Answer #5

Welcome Doll. If you need anything feel free to funmail me

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Answer #6

yes. I agree with that. its not a baby’s fault. anyway thanx for your advice. :)

Answer #7

I would keep the baby. I made a mistake & I would live up to it. Its not the babys fault why should it get killed?

Answer #8

thanks for sharing your problems. your advices are really helping me a lot. god bless. :)

Answer #9

It makes me laugh how so many girls have to have a baby first to then learn to take birth control..

If you can look after this child, then why not keep it? But if you are in no state to look after a baby, I would abort it. Wouldn’t you want a happy baby in a happy home where it’s looked after properly? Or a baby where you struggle to feed it everyday? Struggle to find the money and time to buy it clothes and all the essentials.

Its YOUR choice. No one on here can make your mind up for you.

Answer #10

yes I know the dad. and he too knows it.

yes I know noone can my mind up. but I just want a advice from you guys. I j ust wanted to know if you all were in my position. what would you do?

Answer #11

I hope you dont think im being to personal but if you had unprotected sex you shouldnt get rid of the baby in my opinion you shouldnt get rid of it at all you need to think of all the circumstances and whether you can provide for this child I think it is wrong to get rid but it is entirely your decision do you know who the dad is and does he know?

Answer #12

I was 17 when I got pregnant I was about 3 months before people were actually seeing me getting bigger cause I was so small and it was hard to not notice on me..

I had to tell my parents, it upset them a lot my mom cried and my dad just sat and asked what I was going to do about it.. I was living with my dad at the time and I ended up moving back in with my mother and she asked me what I wanted in life and that was to finish school and get on with my life..

I ended up getting and abortion, I know thats not right and its horrible but I wasnt fully thinking at the time and not thinking about the conciquences of the action I ended up walking out of that doctors office bawling my eyes out and telling my mom I never wanted to go through that again If you are to do what I did, which I recommend not to then you will need majjorr counceling its not a easy situation when your young.. but I am now almost 20 and I think about it still to this day..

sometimes I have slip ups with my boyfriend and there was one time we ended up taking the morning after pill the pill you are talking about but after 3 days of the unprotected sex it wont work..

if I were you I would just sit down with my parents and tell them what you are thinking about and what your going through sometimes parents are poot heads but in the end it will be well worth it telling them, it even makes you closer to your parents..the feeling of being able to tell them anything..

im sure im going to have some people on here calling me a horrible person for what I did.. but you werent in my situation..

I hope I helped out a little =)

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