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Did I do the right thing by sleeping with him?

I’m 17 and we had a bbq party at my place.. after the party, when I thought everybody had went home, I went to the kitchen to do the dishes, my parents were having a trip out of country.. suddenly a pair of hands reached for my waist. I nearly screamed, but when I turned my head, I saw it was Ben (his gf had dumped him 2 days ago).. He seemed to be sad and helpless (I think he cried). At the same time he seemed that he needed something.. I was filled with pity for him when he started taking off my miniskirt and underwear.. and my gosh I realized he was naked underneath.. (with a condom) He was my friend, if he would feel better by doing it with me, why not do it? It was not my first anyway.. so he was already in me from the back.. I did not feel guilty that time cuz I didn’t have a bf.. and Ben had a long one, which was so cool.. After this he said a a sincere thank you and also apologized, he smiled for the first time.. but what troubles me is, did I do the right thing? please advice..

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Answer #1

well if he waz ur friend and u wanted to do it them i dont see ne thing wrong wit it but u shouldnt have sex wit sum one u dont love and go wit but i still dont see ne thing wrong wit it it isnt like u had sex wit him and u didnt kno him

Answer #2

gee, thats a hard one…thats definately an awkward situation.my advice:call him or talk to him about it.was he intoxicated at the time?was it really what he wanted?ask him these kind of questions and you should be able to get a straight answer from him.best of luck!!

Answer #3

That’s pretty cojmplicated. Well i guess it all depends on how you look it >.<” At a glance you might think that you did the wrong thing because you had sex with him out of pity. But when yout hink about it its proabably not a bad thing. He proabably just couln’t control himself. Even so you should give him a call to make sure everything’s ok and ask him what happens now.

Answer #4

Did any one ever message you? Did you still want an answer>?

Answer #5

I no this was five years a go is why I ask

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